Friday, February 14, 2014
7 Quick Takes on What Drives Me Crazy About Valentine's Day
The combination of red and pink.
Hearts. And clowns. And teddy bears.
Red and pink hearts.
The signs telling you what she really wants this year is a red and pink heart filled with bad chocolate. Maybe held by a teddy bear, if you want to go all out. (Teddy bears follow closely after clowns and hearts.)
The complete lack of acknowledgement that real love takes real sacrifice. And that it only has to be demonstrated once a year on this MARTYR'S (talk about sacrifice) feast day which we celebrate with over priced flowers, which can be added to the chocolate-heart-wielding teddy bear. But only if you are ready to say I really, really love you.
Where are the Hallmark cards with sayings such as:
I know you've had a long day. I did too. But I would love to put the baby down tonight and then give you a foot rub.
Or something real life that says I love you like,
I am going to work every day for the rest of my life without complaining no matter how little sleep I've gotten because I want to provide for you and our family.
I searched the entire house and found all 12 of your dirty sock piles and washed and put them away for you. Happy Valentine's Day.
Yes, the baby and I were up all night but I'd rather get up at 5am to make you breakfast than sleep in.
I love the way you down the half and half and noticed you were on your last gallon so I stopped and picked two more up for you.
So Valentine's Day is not anything we make special plans for. And not just because our first Valentine's Day as a newly married and newly pregnant couple is always and forever remembered for the good chocolate I was too sick to eat and the repeated requests to please shower and put on fresh deodorant for the 8the time today. The potent combination of your pregnancy hormones and the bad Italian is making it impossible for me to sleep.
Valentine's Day is every day. Every moment we have a choice and choose the other it speaks volumes. Louder and longer lasting than anything the stores are trying to get you to buy.
So we will have a normal family dinner. Maybe Kateri will make a cake. And maybe Shane can say I love you by rubbing my back for hours if I go into labor and have bad back labor this time. And I can say it with the completely unique gift of 'Look what I pushed out for you. Beat that Ben Bridge.'
Or if I don't have the baby, we can just trade foot rubs and share a glass of half and half.
Happy Valentine's Day!!
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